“Passion is behind the reasons for existence.”
—Kama Sutra: A Tale of Love (via followmeifucan)
June 2012
According to E: Note to Self →
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Being in a long distance relationship sucks. Let’s be real, it does. Sometimes, it downright blows. It’s hard on the heart and mind. It requires a lot of work.
It also requires a connection. Something fundamental must draw those two people together; so much so that the suckiness I mentioned above is just a minute detail. Connection doesn’t happen often… maybe even only a few times in your lifetime. Don’t pass it up.
When you love someone, you love them. You can’t explain it, you just feel it. You don’t know why, you just do. Simple as that. Love doesn’t know borders, it doesn’t know geography, it doesn’t know distance.
Love is love… is love.
If you love someone—near or far—love the shit out of that person. Give them all the right reasons to love you back. Give them your all, let them do the same. Everyone says age is just a number, well, miles are just a number, too.
Love will prevail if it’s meant to be. Even though you might miss the person—hell, you might even be angry that you can’t be with them—never lose sight of why it’s worth it. And if it’s worth it, keep going. Let go if it isn’t.
Distance is such a small concept; Love is a huge one. Love helps you grow, it shows you what you’re made of. Let love overcome the distance. Just have faith.
“One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and unreactive in the midst of his woman’s emotional storms. When he stays present with her, and loves her through the layers of wildness and closure, then she feels his trustability, and she can relax…”
—Osho