fringeofdarkness:

On Clawing The Sheets

“she was clawing the sheets!”

This phrase has become cliche.  Many have used it as a claim to a great fucking session.  I never use it unless I see it.  A girl experiencing a truly intense fucking will grasp the sheets in a sexual frenzy like no other.  And there is no mistaking her pleasure at this point.  

I love fucking a girl.  And when I do - I savor the experience.  Whether it be a spontaneous fucking purely to sate my hunger or an evening-long experience across multiple positions and paces - a good fucking is a deliciously decadent joy.

So - is there anything special about fucking in a BDSM sense?  Absolutely.  While the basic mechanics are the same, any submissive can attest to this simple statement.  You have never been fucked quite right until you have been fucked by a hungry Dominant.

What is so remarkably different?  Everything.  A Dominant creates a mindset and an environment which pushes every erotic button in a girl.  It might be the way she is restrained - on her belly - pillows under her hips, spread wide, and ankles tied to the bed.  It might be his whisper in her ear - not to even think about cumming without permission.  And it might be the way he takes her - deep and hard, working his cock and his penetration angle to get every inch into her and fill her in a way she has never felt before.

When I fuck a girl, my erotic pleasure is greatly enhanced if I can inspire her to fall into the moment.  She will whimper and moan, grunt and scream, and express her pleasure in a stream of consciousness that can often surprise and amaze her.  I encourage her to “sing” to me - because this is the way she can best experience the completeness of her ravishing under me and let go of any potential residual inhibition from her vanilla life.  And I watch her face contort with the deep pleasure she feels.

If I want to feel a perfect union, I also focus on a girl’s body language.  If she is bracing herself against a headboard or undulating towards me, I know she is in a trance-like state, attempting to prolong every sensation as long as she possibly can. I work her body under me, and I watch for her pleasure at every thrust.

When everything is perfect, I watch her claw the sheets.  Truly claw the sheets.

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